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Wednesday, September 21 2016

This is not a sponsored post, we purchased the car using finance through the car yard

When I entered palliative care they asked me what would make my life more comfortable or aid me in living a better quality of life.

On this list was:
to have a wheelchair to help me go for walks or to even go shopping; 
to not be in pain, or feel like I am just existing;
to have a reclining chair as often my feet were numb or swollen from fluid retention especially in Summer; 
to get a pet to help keep me company of a day so I didn't feel so alone; 
to get a new car so that I could be more comfortable when in the car, but also to be easier to get the wheelchair in/out of the car; 
to win the lotto so I could live debt free, fulfill my bucket list to travel but to also feel less guilty about not having any life insurance to leave for Russ so he could afford time off after I died to grieve.

Of course only the pain management and wheelchair were something they could help me with from the above list.

However, I knew a car that was reliable, comfortable, easier to get in or out of and that fits the wheelchair was something of a priority for us and I knew it could make the world of difference to my ability to get out and about.


Out and about Port Macquarie July 2016

Our need for a new car:
Way back in 2009 when I was 18, I purchased my first car! While I'd had other cars before this one such as my beloved '89 Toyota Corolla, a Hyundai Sonata and a Hyundai excel (all cars that were around my age or older than me)- this was the first car that I chose, and was my first big adult purchase (with the help of Russ and finance). 

Off I went to the car yard and found this beautiful 4 year old Ford that looked and drove like an XR6 (without the price tag), it was $20k and it was so fast! I felt so sexy when I drove it and I liked the compliments I got too. I loved the colour of the car too it was this blue with sparkles and a purple hint.


We used the car as mine and Russ' wedding car.

It was a nice car..... until things started going wrong.

A year later I had realised it was probably THE biggest regret of my life!

This car was incredibly low, like so low that it scrapes on every bump and you feel it, I couldn't even drive it down/up my driveway at every previous address over the last 8 years as it scraped the bottom of the car and I mean that horrible-cringe-worthy-type-of-grind it sounded so bad.

PLUS the fact that you can't drive over 100km/h or at the 1 hour mark as you had to pull over for 15mins turn the car off and wait for it to cool down... basically the car is driving on 4 out of 6 cylinders and told by several mechanics that it was an expensive things to repair and I didn't have thousands to just spend on a car not worth $1k. The car wasn't reliable, it wasn't safe and we needed a new car - but we couldn't afford it.

Back in 2012 we tried to upgrade to a Hyundai ix35 as it was higher off the ground and had sat Nav, Bluetooth etc. but we weren't in a good financial position to get a new car and our ford wasn't worth what we hoped or needed for a trade in. 

So we kept waiting until we were in a better financial position which meant reducing our debt, working on our savings and hopefully getting our home loan.

Our existing car I haven't been able to drive for years as the steering wheel was low it sat on my belly which meant every time I went over a bump it was quite painful.... actually anytime I went over a bump it hurt so much. I no longer enjoyed driving and it became a chore, I would always ask Russ to drive if he were able to as I would be in tears most of the time. The car also was so low and was getting harder for me to get in and out; it was also hard to get the wheelchair in/out too, as you had to bend down low and it was getting too strenuous on Russell's back.

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Fast forward to August 2016, we were getting ready to move into our new house and we went to the car yard to look at their i30 and i40s all the small cars for Russ to drive to and from work. Our car was no longer reliable and I was worried about Russ breaking down on the way to work, so something that gave us confidence in getting Russ to work safely was a must, as well as a second car could be handy so I wasn't stranded at home in case I needed to get to the shops or to doctors/hospitals.

We told the car yard how ideally we would love an ix35 but they were no longer manufactured and the replacing models "Tuscan" were way, way, way out of our price range - so we knew we could at least afford the smaller i30 or i40.

Finding the perfect ix35:
Then the car yard mentioned a near new Hyundai ix35 that had only done 17,500kms and was 1 year old. It was owned by an older couple who struggled with the bigger car and were trading it in for the smaller car. They hadn't released the car yet on the market and we were the first ones interested so we put down a deposit. 

This was our one chance for finding a near new ix35 without the price (of a brand new model), so we were SO excited. Hardest part was keeping the secret until we got our keys.

We have debt to our eyeballs but we feel deep down that this truly is the best decision for us. A car that will assist me in getting out and about more comfortably and easily is so exciting!

I drove the car home, I haven't driven a car in over a year.... I did almost blow the car up! No, I am serious.... never making that mistake again!

Keep your eyes out for the future adventures that await! I am actually rather excited now for my future, despite drowning in debt I do hope we can manage. It makes me exciting thinking of all the fun and adventures ahead.

We can't wait to see what adventures unfold or the conversations this car will bear witness too.

Tell me in the comments below what the most memorable car you owned?

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